About Bill & Laurie
We’re Bill and Laurie Lokey, and we’re glad you found us. We currently reside a little south of Nashville, TN where we enjoy five children and nine grandchildren with whom we have developed fulfilling relationships with a lot of joy and sometimes craziness! After 23 years working in the therapy field we have become really good at working with trauma, helping couples heal their relationship, training leaders who impact their culture, and speaking to groups about growing their faith. We now get to work together offering encouragement and support through intensives, workshops, trainings and speaking engagements.
We understand pain, failure, and trauma because we’ve lived it. We’ve had to trust God completely for His mercy and for making “All things new,” including ourselves. This has given us a passion for finding what really works as we help others, and as we teach how the God of love can show us how to love, especially when it’s difficult.
We share our own stories in vulnerable and relational ways to help others know that being perfect is not what helps. Doing relationships clumsily is how we learn to show our hearts and love well.
Your shame, regrets, and mistakes are not the end of your story. And we believe it’s our calling to help other people in their relationships and spiritual journeys. No matter where you’ve been and what you’ve been through, know that God can heal you and redeem your story, too.
transformation begins here
Speaking & Workshops
Gifted Counselors & Speakers
“Bill and Laurie Lokey are gifted, wise counselors and speakers. As experienced life-guides, Bill and Laurie help those they work with discover and recover authenticity, creativity, intimacy, and courage to be the best version of themselves they can be. Working with Bill and Laurie is like coming home to the place you’ve been looking for your whole life.”
Trustworthy Guides for the Soul
"There are rare men I come upon in my life that have become the kind of men who I know are trustworthy guides for the soul. Bill is that kind of man. Through decades of consenting to his own restoration, he has become the kind of man who participates with God to bring deep and lasting restoration in the hearts of others. I have a short list of men and women I recommend wholeheartedly to those who are ready to invest whatever it takes to receive soul care, particularly in the healing of deep trauma. Bill stands on the top of that list."
Author, Becoming A King & Founder of BecomeGoodSoil.com
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